¿EN QUE MOMENTO PASÓ?

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Por Hiram Chávez

 

La atención de los padres, su educación, pero también los regaños, reprensiones, castigos y azotes, eran las herramientas que forjaron valores como el respeto, la obediencia y la responsabilidad en una generación que, aún agacha la mirada ante sus padres, que cede los asientos a los adultos en el transporte público y que las canas de los ancianos son respetadas a costa de lo que sea.

Cuando los padres eran eso, padres y no amigos; seres que siempre tenían una respuesta sabia a nuestras dudas, un sabio consejo ante nuestras constantes equivocaciones, una mirada seria y una boca cerrada cuando cometíamos alguna travesura, un espacio en sus múltiples ocupaciones para oír nuestras peticiones, miedos, traumas, dolores, culpas, mientras sus miradas estaban en ti; padres que acudían a la escuela a preguntar ¿Cómo va mi hijo maestro?, padres con un olfato tan preciso, que en tu olor detectaban lo que habías hecho, y el estado de ánimo en el que te encontrabas; padres que eran los perfectos psicoanalistas, médicos, enfermeros, maestros, héroes, padres que estaban dispuestos a azotarte frente a la directora de la escuela como pago a tus distracciones.

Lo ocurrido la mañana del día miércoles en el Colegio Americano del Noreste en la ciudad de Monterrey, Nuevo León. Ha sido, no solo es un golpe brutal directo al corazón de una sociedad pérdida, sacudiendo las entrañas de todo un país que durante cientos de año no hace otra cosa más que recibir golpes de propios y extraños.

Se puede culpar al Colegio por la falta de seguridad dentro de su institución, a los padres por descuidar el correcto desarrollo de sus hijos dentro de los valores y principios, manteniendo armas de fuego en casa y al alcance de sus hijos; así como al mismo gobierno por estar más ocupado en desfalcar al país y recortando el presupuesto a la educación, que en asegurarse de cumplir y hacer cumplir los derechos de cada hijo de este país.

Sin embargo, no es tiempo de buscar culpables, lo hecho, hecho esta, y en esta ocasión no es posible remediar el dolor de los padres de un hijo que sufría, llámese depresión o llámese mala influencia de amigos cómplices o  movido por sentimientos engendrados por grupos suicidas en redes sociales.

Formamos parte de una sociedad extraviada, sin rumbo, sin prioridades en la vida; estancados entre los deseos de salir adelante y lo que la indiferencia nos canta al oído. Salimos a las calles a cerrar avenidas, gritar consignas creyendo “defender” el futuro de nuestros hijos, mientras ellos mueren en las escuelas, mientras ellos yacen desorientados urgidos por un consejo, por atención, por un instante con nosotros. Un país en donde “orgullosamente” somos el número uno en caso de bullying escolar y en obesidad infantil.

Nuestros hijos, ya no son nuestros hijos, ahora son hijo de un Xbox, Wii, Play Station; son educados por un software que les ha inculcado que para ser grandes y respetados se necesita ser  vándalo, asesino, narcotraficante, etcétera.

Con cuanta facilidad en nuestro país, un niño consigue un arma de fuego, la introduce a un colegio y abre fuego contra su maestra y sus compañeros para posteriormente terminar con su propia vida, como si los sentimientos fueran cosa de otro mundo muy lejano al que ellos jamás tuvieron acceso. No, Federico no fue el culpable, no, el arma calibre 22 tampoco. Federico fue objeto de un asesino letal pero silencioso, del mismo que miles de hijos en este país están siendo objetos, la indiferencia de los padres, el olvido de quienes los trajeron al mundo, el desinterés de sus progenitores, el olvido de un gobierno que su verdadero trabajo estriba en ver por ellos, asegurarles una educación sana, segura, laica, gratuita y en completo apego a derecho,  y que ha hecho exactamente lo contrario; muestra de ello es que, precisamente un día anterior a la desgracia ocurrida en Monterrey, a un joven de la misma edad que Federico, pero en la delegación Azcapotzalco de la ciudad de México, le fue asegurada una arma deportiva que llevaba en su mochila. (Excélsior 19 de enero)

¿En qué momento pasó?, ¿En qué momento se perdieron los valores?, ¿En qué momento dejo de ser más importante platicar con nuestros hijos sin la tecnología de intermediaria? ¿En qué momento fue más importante para nosotros los padres un Smartphone que los sentimientos de nuestros hijos? ¿En qué instante desviamos nuestra mirada de nuestros hijos para ponerla sobre una laptop o una Ipad? ¿Cuándo fue que se convirtió más valioso para nosotros fingir un estatus en redes sociales, que dé en realidad vivir la plena felicidad con los nuestros?

Lo ocurrido en Monterrey solo puede provocar dos cosas; la primera: que la sociedad reaccione y luche por recuperar los valores perdidos, haga un esfuerzo sobrehumano para reconstruir los principios y fortalecer el núcleo familiar; y la segunda: esperar la siguiente desgracia, rogando a Dios que  los próximos no sean nuestros hijos.

 

Nos seguimos leyendo el próximo lunes, saludos.

@ChavezHiram

 

 

 

 

 

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